The differences between the man and woman

I think men and women aren't just physically different, but mentally and spiritually. Now obviously physically different, yes. People are trying to redefine what a women is, it is quite sad... When it comes to transgender women competing against actually women, it's not an actual competition, because the male body is stronger than the women's body. In my beginning swimming class my friend raced against a girl on the swim team and won. He is not on the swim team to remind you. So yes men and women are physically different. Although we are always told it's not good to be different, and that were all the same. I actually think that mentally is pretty bad. Were all unique and special in our own ways. Not better, but different. I was telling a friend from Africa about my mental problem and he was telling me how in america everyone has some problem with their mental problems. In Africa, they would be told to just toughen up and stop looking for attention. Now I do agree that many Americans are seeking attention where they can, but I feel saying your problem doesn't matter ignores it, and it could not get the attention it needs. Although I could also see having a positive look how ignoring it may make you not focus on it and focus on things that make you stronger. Anyways, this relates because our society is telling us that our gender doesn't matter. Our gender is what makes us different and what makes us unique.

Now mentally I would say men and women are different. It's what makes us stronger as well having those differences. Not only in the work place, but also in the home. Men are more competitive and contentious, while women are more motherly and caring. This is so men can fight against threats that may hurt his family. Women are motherly to her children so they may get they nurturing they need. In my own life, I feel I can talk a lot better to a women. When it comes to friends and councilors. Men see things more straight to the point, while women see things more personally. 

Spiritually, our genders play a big part as well. If our genders didn't exist beyond our earthly bodies, it really wouldn't matter who we married after death, because were all spirits with no genders. So of coarse our genders exist after and before we die. Priesthood power is only held by men, and units men and women in marriage. We identify God as our Heavenly Father while many other religions can't give god a direct gender. He may be a man and a women or neither. Other religions say he is God, The holy ghost, and Christ. So being able to identify Heavenly Fathers gender gives him an identity and shows he is more than just a figure in the sky, but an actual person who cares and loves for us. 

Our society wants us to believe we force these stereo types onto children at a young age. I was not a young child not too long ago, and I would say no one necessarily forced these stereotypes onto children. We wanted to act the way we did. Toy companies are going to make what sells. I believe kids influence what stereotypes what toys are made by what they buy. If girls wanted to play with more boy toys, they would buy boy toys and barbie would go out of business. Toy companies try new things all the time and stick to what sells. If girls like pink and being feminine, they will stick to what sells.

A question I ask is why would our societies want to leave these stereotypes? Well these stereotypes encourage the family structure. Our society wants to destroy the family. Countries in Europe encourage women into not having children and that women should not be motherly. This is the future. They want to influence the stereotypes of same gender attraction which also attacks the family. Not having a family structure leads people down into unsuccessful lives. So why would our society want this way for our upcoming generations. Well sin is their happiness. Mistaking good for evil. It may be hard to raise a family and the most righteous path isn't always the most popular.

Not everyone fits the typical male and female stereotypes. When I was younger, I didn't like playing with the Nurf guns as much as the other guys. I played with littlest pet shop. I eventually grew out of playing with littlest pet shop, but my family never criticized me for playing with these girly toys. Many children grow up wanting to play with toys that don't fit their stereo type and don't fit in with they rest of their gender. Thinking it means they aren't their gender or they like their same gender. Sense my family weren't constantly saying I  didn't fit the gender It didn't make me question my gender. Which is why so many other guys do question their gender is because their families gave them a hard time about not fitting in with the other guys growing up.