Malakai's Thoughts

In class this week I think a very good saying brother Williams brought up is, "Sex is sacred, not secret." Growing up I knew for a long time that Sex was to be waited for marriage, but my family didn't bring it up or it was very awkward to bring up and I feel like they may have brought problems latter on. I had a vague idea on what sex was at the age of probably 6, and not that I knew the plumbing of sex, I knew it was between a man and women. I slowly learned how it worked through media and I feel it would of been better if my parents taught me that it was between a man and a women and where babies came from. Instead of figuring it out from my own curiosity from movies over the years. My parents also never actually told me Santa isn't real. I figured it out eventually and then at the certain stage where your parents realize you know, but it's not officially brought up. I just grew out of it. The awkward part was when I had to still pretend, when I knew Santa wasn...

 This week I recently watched a tik tok of a woman who was saying how wrong everyone was who was telling her to have children were. She says she was told she would be lonely and regret it later when shes too old and wish she would of had children. Now she's 50, Debt free and living the life she's always wanted.  In the comments many others were happy for her, and were agreeing with her choice. I disagree, with her choices, but I think if she doesn't want to have children others should respect her choices. Although it's sad to see her and many others influencing others by giving them a false reality that life is better when you choose your self over raising children. You will also see this in our society by showing women they are better off in the workforce than at home watching their children grow up. Another reason many of these people don't want to have children and are following this trend is they don't want to grow up and have responsibility. This generation...

 Dating is so important more than ever for people to get to know others in our society. I noticed friends I have talked to are very afraid to date, including myself, because of rejection. I saw the dating for fun model as kind of bad, because it showed you didn't call back it meant you weren't in to me and felt that I was less special because I knew they would be dating with many other people. I see that those are my own insecurities, because with friends I notice if I am not as outgoing as they like, they may get board of me and move on. Those friends aren't as good compared to the ones that will stay by you even on your boring days. Although it's always good to have many friends, just don't move on from your loyal friends just because someone of better comes into your life at the moment. I am of full support now for the date around model, because you can meet different types of people. The problem with quickly getting into a relationship is you can't experienc...

I think men and women aren't just physically different, but mentally and spiritually. Now obviously physically different, yes. People are trying to redefine what a women is, it is quite sad... When it comes to transgender women competing against actually women, it's not an actual competition, because the male body is stronger than the women's body. In my beginning swimming class my friend raced against a girl on the swim team and won. He is not on the swim team to remind you. So yes men and women are physically different. Although we are always told it's not good to be different, and that were all the same. I actually think that mentally is pretty bad. Were all unique and special in our own ways. Not better, but different. I was telling a friend from Africa about my mental problem and he was telling me how in america everyone has some problem with their mental problems. In Africa, they would be told to just toughen up and stop looking for attention. Now I do agree that ...